But I’m not one to judge; I used to feel the same way. even though I knew better, even though I knew he was crazy about me, even though I was confident that he was “the one,” a part of me was absolutely terrified that maybe I was wrong, maybe I would screw this up just as I had screwed up so many relationships in the past (him included; we dated in high school and it ended because I wanted things to be more serious …and he wanted to be a teenage boy and live in a world where “serious” wasn’t part of his vocabulary).Or to jump in way too fast and forget your old life. Among them is one that is often overlooked: creativity.In the early stages of a new relationship, time together is a relatively narrow window of opportunity. Scour the weekend newspaper and websites for unique, outside-the-box date possibilities. There is no such thing as an issue-free relationship.It's important for them to know that those relationships can and do exist with the opposite sex.Don't drive yourself crazy over them." KC I."Sometimes we just need time to hang out with the boys. Guys (like me) aren't that great at guessing what women think or want, and our stupidity often leads to otherwise easily avoidable arguments. The beginning of a new relationship can be a tricky course to navigate.
I can't explain how refreshing it is when it feels like it's 50-50." Greg G."Regardless of what you've heard, realize that guys can indeed be 'just friends' with other girls. Some think there's no such thing as a platonic relationship with another girleither one or the other of you wants to hook up.To help give you some peace of mind and an understanding of what lays the foundation for a lasting, happy relationship, here are some basic rules to follow for a new relationship (some of these might also help you if you’re single, or even in a committed relationship).Fortunately, most of the feedback I get on my advice is positive, but when I do get negative feedback it’s usually from women who didn’t follow this step …There’s nothing more exciting than a new relationship in love.A new relationship brings with it a hope for good things and adds a bit of mystery that intrigues you to learn more.