To anyone who thinks clear communication ("just ask so it's clear! Having that level of conversation very early on in getting to know someone could backfire by coming across as insecurity/paranoia and be a warning sign or general turn-off.I've found that it's usually pretty easy for me to tell within a short time after meeting a girl whether she's "the type" who would or wouldn't pursue multiple guys at once, so I just follow my gut there.And she'd be justified in feeling that way, so it's not okay for me to do that to her.I'd expect the same from her end of things and would feel upset if I found out she was pursuing another guy while she 'led me on'.Ricardus was one of the most prolific and respected coaches in the men’s dating advice industry. Ricardus is currently retired from the dating advice industry.He’s dated some of the planet’s most beautiful women, ranging from a Miss World contestant, to a model for Coca-Cola, to one of “Brazil’s Next Top Models.” His specialty is daytime street stops. Some think this kind of behavior might hurt my chances because "wouldn't she maybe be more interested in me if she saw me getting along so well with other girls? I'm optimistic that if two people are a good match for each other, the goodness of that chemistry will render all of these "little mind games" irrelevant as they just have an honest conversation and end up with that introductory obsession for each other. ;)The disclaimer to all of this is that I don't consider myself a "casual dater" and don't really think that would be healthy for me - I'd rather be in a more meaningful relationship that has at least some chance to last forever, or else none at all.
We are Answer is always “maybe”Whenever you invite him to do something far in advance, his answer is always “maybe.” He doesn’t say, “Because I may have a work thing” or give an excuse. If this only happens occasionally, you may not have to worry.Before the vacation, I went out with another girl, and had a third girl ask me out although no definitive plans were made. It seemed fairly new in getting to know each other to declare that she was my girlfriend.I tried to text the initial girl after there was a delayed response on my part (cell phone signal issues while on vacation). I am dating with the hopes of ending up in a relationship.Most women overlook the tell-tale signs..then become surprised, shocked, or disappointed when they find out he's been keeping his options open the whole time. This is the typical reaction when a friend suggests that maybe that guy whose been dangling you along for months is juggling a couple other women.