Quick Jump: General Signs of Flirting | Male Flirting | Female Flirting Also See: Body Language Resources | Decoding Male Body Language Updated March 21st - 2012. For instance: A shaky, uneven voice may suggest that a person is shy, intimidated, or dishonest. (see note) 38% of it depends on our intonation, or the sound of our voice.A clear, loud voice may indicate that a person is confident.
He was dating another girl when we first started dating. He started taking piano lessons and singing in the choir. I've thought maybe he's NPD, but he doesn't show any grandoise behaviors--he knows that's socially unacceptable. He splits a lot--one minute holding someone on a pedestal, the next completely devaluing them. Mirroring is what I really want to think about--because it's sometimes shocking. It's not hard if you have the ability..knowledge to do that sort of thing." To me, that sounds kind of freaky! Now--all this happened, not after he was with these women for a long time--as an effort for him to compromise and share interests--he just started taking these classes when he became interested. He scored the EXACT same personality as me--that's what he said. And I'm really suspicious he just does it to everyone.He does express emotions, but they are always about him and his needs/angers. Here are some statements he's made repeatedly: "I'm always wearing a mask." "I'm a really good actor." Pertaining to socializing. Especially, "she's an open book." Also, in the beginning of our R this happened: He has criticized my art soooo much, but in the beginning he took an art class. Another thing, in the beginning of our R, I took the kersey personality type test. He's a completely different person than who he pretends to be.It's not enough just to listen, you must learn to pay close attention in order to understand your partner's truth. Harville Hendrix, "It's 'Do you see that I'm not crazy?'" Validating Exercise Step 3: Empathizing Once the feeling is expressed, it's time to put yourself in your partner's shoes.