1) Complaining about your overtly jealous woman then throwing tantrums when she merely glances at other men in the room.
You are not the Sultan and whatever applies to her applies to you as well. 2) Flaunting your finances when wooing a woman, wining and dining her at the priciest spots in town, ordering the ridiculous magnum champagne bottles and showering her with expensive gifts only to later complain that she’s only with you for your money. 3) Her style is what got you noticing her in the first place, but suddenly you’re not feeling those mini dresses and shorts anymore.
And who wants to marry a man with lack of vision anyway?
I was raised in a strict christian setting (very strict) and I do not like an extremely religious environment.
This behavior is what keeps most of us wives from asking for very much. And knowing a person will do pretty much anything in the world to make you happy prevents us from wanting to bother them with silly things.
Arab men have been labeled as oppressive, controlling, and abusive, these accusations come from scenarios where the case has unfortunately been true, however many Arab men have been thrown in the same category.
This is not an “honour” issue; your own insecurities are getting the best of you.
It’s always easier and less petrifying for them to take the plunge together, this way they won’t feel like they’re missing out on late night parties at ONE because they were up early with you deciding between petunias or orchids. Why leave a carefree home only to share one with a woman who needs to sign a leave request for his every move?