PUA methods vary, but all pickups socially and emotionally manipulate a woman.Men are taught to engage in certain behaviors to make her feel “safe” in his prescence and even to intentionally insult her (“negging”) to put her off guard.When I found out the message was actually ripped from a pickup artist's website, that didn't shock me either.After all, I regularly receive online dating messages like this: Though I haven't seen that one on pickup artist forums, I have a feeling it's a classic example of "negging"—the pickup artist technique of saying something unkind about a woman so that she'll seek validation from you.You have to be proactive in this phrase, meaning you have to send out and initiate all the contact.
To clarify: a pickup artist is a guy who approaches and flirts with a girl(s) in a situation, where they would otherwise have never met (a cold approach).Being Asian did put me at disadvantage, it's quite hard to go against the AFC Asian stereotype and pull off a BELIEVABLE natural alpha male frame. If I can pull it off, meaning you yes, the white, African American, or Hispanic that are usually accompanied with strong alpha male stereotype can definitely do better than me.However, I did my best and overcame that, now it actually works in my favor, they indeed become quite fascinated and curious to find out about me when getting picked up by such a confident Asian who defies everything they expect to find in such stereotypes. I won't go over how to make an interesting profile, if you still don't know how, there are bunch of post in this forum that can point you to the right direction. Their students, as they see it, are hapless men who just need a few bro-pats on the back in order to have the confidence to go forth into the jungle of pussy and skin their first pelt. A little backstory on pickup artists (PUAs): they are men and women (but usually men) who see what they do as teaching social skills.