Use your preparation to talk the matter through with them at this point.
Take time to research as many examples as possible of happy intercaste couples and unhappy same-caste couples among your friends and acquaintances.
So I’ve decided to help people in intercaste relationships convince their parents of their decisions. Prepare yourself before you go in for The Discussion. Following is a paraphrase of what is written in her book. I’m curious to hear: what sociopaths have you encountered in your lives? Stout lists “Thirteen Rules For Dealing With Sociopaths In Everyday Life.” I love this list and found it enlightening. “In a contest between your instincts and what is implied by the role a person has taken on – educator, doctor, leader, animal lover, policeman, humanist, parent – go with your instincts,” Stout urges. I write this not in the spirit of schadenfreude, but rather in celebration of ability, the majority of us, to live lives full of depth, meaning, relationship, and love.This rule breaks the habit of unconsciousness by resetting your relationship with food.It respects the wisdom of your body, and lets you hear the signals it’s sending you about what you really need to eat and how much. If they’re stressed, distracted or eating on auto-pilot, they can easily miss them.